Is it abnormal to NOT want big breasts?

ive heard plenty of stories and articles about girls who have big breasts and are proud of it and stories about girls who WANT big breasts.


But i actually HAVE big breats and i dont want to. i get really embarressed and stuff. All my other friends dont seem to care but i always try not to make it obvious.


someone from my school also has big ones and doesnt seem to care.


wat should i do?
Is it abnormal to NOT want big breasts?
I feel the same way! I probably wouldnt ever go so far as to get a reduction or anything but Im way bigger than all of my friends and they make comments about it all the time. I%26#039;ve kind of just learned to deal with it, its who you are and most people are probably jealous. Basically, all Im saying is dont let it bother you.
Is it abnormal to NOT want big breasts?
It all depends on the person, some people are happy with what they have and that%26#039;s the important thing.


Personally, I don%26#039;t have nor do I ever want large breasts. Breast reduction is actually quite popular. Depending on the person%26#039;s built, fairly large breasts can actually cause back pains.
Reply:well everyones different.


ppl who have small ones say they want big ones people who have breast to big want smaller ones.


but really i thinnk its better to have bigger ones cause you look bettter in clothes, swim suuits. etc


maybe those girls are just jealous that their not like you? but really its what yuo want , you dont have to be embarressed about something you are its not like you can change it right?
Reply:No, it is not abnormal to not want big breasts at all! If you are embarrassed all of the time, maybe you should look into getting breast reductions. I know girls who had big breasts and hated them, and were embarrassed just like you, and eventually they got breast reductions! You are normal for thinking this!
Reply:You should start accepting your body. They are woman out there that usually want larger sized breast and the only resort is to getting surgery there are other out there who don%26#039;t have any breast at all because of cancer. This is normal but can be helped by starting to like %26amp; accept they way you look in all aspects. Unless they are causing you medical problems than you can seek help in getting them smaller, but getting them smaller because you don%26#039;t like how they look isn%26#039;t a good idea.
Reply:I know what you are talkin about, all the extra attention that can come really can be uncomfortable.


What you need to do is (and this is only a suggestion) invest in a minimiser bra (one of the best inventions). Not only this but think about how you can make it into a positive. How can this make you feel better? You have something soooooooooo many people go out to have surgery for.


You don%26#039;t sound like yo are very old so just wait till your a bit older and I%26#039;ll tell you they may indeed become your best friends!


If all else fails pretend they are not there! Go about you life as if they were not there. Try it and soon enough you will forget and just live life.


*hugs*
Reply:unless it gets in the way of daily life, or gets you a LOT of unwanted attention, I%26#039;d say don%26#039;t do anything risky to yourself like getting a reduction. You really should love yourself for your differences! But if it still bothers you, best thing to do without getting surgery would be probably to wear bras that can help make them look smaller, like a minimizing bra or a sports bra.
Reply:dont be embarrassed. im a dude and dont own boobs but u should show dem thangs off. guys like me love em.